Zesjule {Bonding} (t͡sˈɛsjuːlə)
Zesjule, the magic of bonding's
There are many types of bonding's and relationships, there are friendships and families and they can be narrowed down further of course.
Bonding means that two or more people connect their minds. Through this, emotions, thoughts and more can be shared in that very special moment, how much and what everyone wants to share is up to them in a way, it depends on what relationship they have with the other person.
Note that the further the list goes, the bonding conditions mentioned above will count for the following as well, every relationship starts of with meeting someone and becoming friends after all and it can expand depending on the factors that are given and are being made.
Now what does bonding do? Well, what do relationships in general mean to you, you feel stronger than you are alone I suppose, you feel confident and more energetic. It's what goes on in your brain when you are with other people in a posetive sense.
And that can make you way more powerful than when you are alone, it can make you feel healthy and whole. That is a type of magic.
1st stage, Families
When having children the parents will or rather should spend their life together with them, creating a new chapter like every relationship does, but a family is one of a kind and very unique because here the parents may decide to have children but the rest is up to fate. No one here can decide what kind of person they will get as a child, neither parents nor children. It's as random as the clouds in the sky. So bonding with each other means feeling home and happy with the people one got as parents or children.
Bondings happen through hugging or peacefully being next to each other in silent.
A warm blanket covers the torso and the head, comfortability floats through the body and the heart feels safe and the place in which one is feels safe.
2nd stage, Friendships
When choosing your friends, your work and existing connections will make the first step for you, but you yourself decide when you wanna call a colleague your friend. Friendship means being happy and funny with the other, knowing they like you too.
Bondings happen through memorable moments, when you know you can trust that person.
The head tingles and feelings of joy are spread to everyone. It's a simple and light feeling and just makes memories more special, it strengthens you and is much more special because you chose those friends.
3rd stage, Soulmates
Many believe that soulmates are chosen for you and you need to find them and you instantly connect, others think you can make them and create the strong trust through cherishing the relationship. Whatever one you thing is how one gets to have their soulmate, finally having one means you found your other half or even you as a second person, your twin you never had, your mirror image.
Bonding's happen through quiet moments, when you don't speak but simply exist next to each other.
A Fuzzy feeling spreads through the body, the head feels light and the emotions of the other can be felt.
You feel both the area around you to be different and your memories as strong as the two stages before but now you feel it physically in your body also.
4th stage, Lovers
Choosing a partner means you want to spend the rest of your life with the other, cherishing one another, comforting and daring each other to be the best they can be and the best you can be. Loving once flaws and adoring once strength, you feel no shame and are proud of who you are with them. And commonly even being intimate with them.
Bonding happens through kisses, when you connect physical with them or when you are in such a special moment with them that it simply happens out of nowhere.
A hot feeling spreads from the head and down the body, the head feels like it's filled with fog and the physical feelings of the other can be felt.
Now you feel the energy of the area around you again, the emotions of yourself and your bodys sensation but what's different now is that you feel the person next to you also, a truly special moment.
