Vaelorian Mirror-Elves
Those who walk between the Lights
Naming Traditions
Feminine names
Seryndre,Vaeloria,Liraenys,Selinthrae,Maerythria,Thalyra
Masculine names
Vaelorin,Dravenis,Maelthyr,Corvellan,Thalrien,Varos
Unisex names
Shaevyn,Ilessa,Khyrel,Vaelun,Seravon,Rylith
Family names
Vaeloria,Mirrorglade,Silverfold,Dusksheen,Lumenveil,Shadethorn
Culture
Major language groups and dialects
Mirror-Elves use:
- Vaelorin Cant — their private dialect
- High Elvish — for formal speech
- Shadar-Kai Shade Cant — for ritual phrases
- Sylvan — for fey-affinity rites
- Common — softened by melodic tone
Their speech blends:
- elegant High Elven vowels
- Shadar-Kai sharp consonants
- subtle, rhythmic cadence
Culture and cultural heritage
Vaelorian culture comes from:
- High Elf aesthetics
- Shadar-Kai discipline
- Feywild emotional depth
Their identity is defined by:
- duality
- reflection
- emotional artistry
- erotic mystique
- resilience
- survival between worlds
Shared customary codes and values
Core values include:
- Balance between light and shadow
- Self-mastery
- Beauty as a sacred language
- Emotional intuition
- Consent, in all things
- Desire as expression, not dominance
- Truth wrapped in metaphor
- Protection of the vulnerable
Common Etiquette rules
- Never break eye contact abruptly—seen as rude.
- Compliments are expected and returned.
- Emotion should be acknowledged, not hidden.
- Mirrors are sacred; never touch one without permission.
- Silence in conversation is respectful, not awkward.
- Consent must always be spoken aloud.
Common Dress code
Mirror-Elves love:
- layered silks
- partial nudity
- velvet
- sheer fabrics
- asymmetrical cuts
- bold colors
- jewelry with reflective metals or crystals
Clothing shifts between masculine and feminine elements fluidly.
Art & Architecture
Their artistry centers on:
- mirrored surfaces
- shadow-lit sculptures
- illusions
- emotional expression
Architecture (rare due to their rarity) features:
- curved walkways
- reflective pools
- bioluminescent plants
- interplay of darkness and light
- open spaces for dance and performance
Foods & Cuisine
Cuisine is:
- delicate
- aromatic
- balanced between sweet and sharp flavors
Common ingredients:
- moonfruit
- night-herbs
- feywild spices
- shadow truffle
- star-touched wine
- honeyed bread
Meals are eaten slowly, ritualistically.
Common Customs, traditions and rituals
- Mirror-Communion: meditating before paired mirrors
- Shadow-Dance: elegant dance performed in dim light
- Dusk-Prayers: whispered confessions to ancestors
- Glamour Weaving: painting or makeup ritual
- Soul-Balance Festivals: communal celebration of duality
Birth & Baptismal Rites
Newborn Mirror-Elves undergo:
- Moon-Bath — bathed in moonlit water
- Shadow-Kiss — touched with a symbolic streak of ash
- Mirror Naming — parents speak the child’s name to a mirror, then break and bury the mirror, symbolizing new identity
- Blessing of Dual Souls
Coming of Age Rites
The Ritual of Two Mirrors at ~80 years:
- One mirror of radiant light
- One mirror of shadow
- The youth gazes into both
- They choose their path:
- Lusterpath — desire, beauty, expression
- Duskwalk — secrecy, introspection, subtlety
They receive an epithet:
- “Velvet”
- “Silver”
- “Dusklit”
- “Moonborne”
- “Shadowkissed”
Funerary and Memorial customs
Mirror-Elves treat death as transition:
- Body is wrapped in silk
- A mirror is broken above them to release the soul
- A ritual dance of shadows is performed
- Ashes are set beneath a reflective stone or still water
They believe the dead watch the living “from the other side of the mirror.”
Common Taboos
These acts are culturally forbidden:
- Breaking a mirror in anger (invites spiritual imbalance)
- Impersonating another Mirror-Elf
- Forcing a role—dominant or submissive—on someone without emotional consent
- Mocking someone’s dual nature
- Neglecting reflection rituals
- Speaking a dead Mirror-Elf’s name aloud more than once per year
Absolutely forbidden:
- touching another Mirror-Elf during their Reflection Meditation
- damaging reflective surfaces in sacred spaces
- revealing another’s chosen mirror-path without permission
Ideals
Beauty Ideals
Mirror-Elves value:
- Androgynous elegance
- Sculpted cheekbones
- Soft+sharp duality
- Dramatic makeup
- High contrast in features (dark eyes, pale light-reactive skin)
- Perfect poise
- Emotional expressiveness
Symmetry is considered a sign of powerful glamour.
Gender Ideals
Gender is viewed as:
- Fluid
- Expressive
- Optional
Mirror-Elves believe one’s gender presentation should shift to reflect:
- Mood
- magical resonance
- desired aesthetic
Masculinity = strength, clarity, intensity
Femininity = allure, grace, softness
Both = balance, completeness
Neither = freedom
Courtship Ideals
Vaelorian courtship revolves around:
- exchanging reflective objects (mirrors, polished stones)
- verbal dance and flirtation
- emotional honesty paired with playful misdirection
- mutual admiration of one another’s dual nature
Physical touch is less important than emotional resonance.
Relationship Ideals
Mirror-Elves prize:
- balance
- emotional transparency
- mutual empowerment
- autonomy within closeness
Partnership is seen as a mirror, not an anchor.
Monogamy, polyamory, and soul-triads are all culturally valid.
